If you meet a couple–a man and a woman–don’t ever ask, “Is this your mother?” even if she looks many years older than the man.  We know a lot of horror stories caused by this faus pas.

Similarly, if you meet an older man with a much younger woman, don’t ask the man if she is his daughter.  He may be flattered, but chances are he will not be.  He may already be sensitive about the topic,  and will resent being told that he looks much older  than his wife, girlfriend, etc.

If you meet two women, and you suspect or know that it’s a mother and a daughter, it’s a risky compliment to ask, “Are you sisters?” Your question may be flattering to the mother, but not to the daughter who may resent being told that  she looks old enough to be her mother’s sister.

Gene Griessman is an internationally known keynote speaker, actor, and communication strategist. His book “TheWords Lincoln Lived By” is in its 23rd printing and “Time Tactics of Very Successful People” is in its 43rd printing. His training video “Lincoln on Communication” is owned by thousands of corporations, libraries, and government organizations. He has spoken at conventions and annual meetings all over the world. To learn more about his presentations, call 404-435-2225. Learn more at Atlanta Speakers Bureau or at his website. His latest book “Lincoln and Obama” has just been released by Audible.
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